Barrett Dorko
31-05-2006, 11:54 PM
It’s been a quiet week in Cuyahoga Falls…
At every course I spend a few minutes after lunch showing the class where there might go on the Internet to discover more. Of course, I show them around Soma Simple.
In St. Cloud Minnesota last Thursday a woman raised her hand after this and said quite seriously, “I have trouble choosing among all the salad dressings offered in a restaurant. I can’t begin to…” Her voice trailed off as she shook her head and it seemed clear that she wasn’t about to change the choice she’d made years ago. All I could tell her was that, for me, this subject can never grow too large.
But, in fact, as their options for treatment and theories of dysfunction increase many therapists grow paralyzed, unable to decide which of these they might use or study further. But I’ve heard it said that those among us who spend a lot of time looking for the “ideal” situation to place ourselves in never make any real progress. So choices must be made, and, if you think about it, looking back upon the consequences of any choice typically reveals that it was both the right and wrong one to make.
The anxiety I sense when students look at the many ways our patients might be understood probably has its roots in their work environment. Many are driven by productivity standards and a personal need to get along with others on the staff and, of course, these things tend to reduce the choices we consider. This is a problem when the student realizes that there are clinics where the care is not based on a theory that can be defended given what we know about human function lately. Talking about this isn’t the most popular thing I do.
But choices reduce anxiety, at least according to Feldenkrais. In The Elusive Obvious he says, “Anxiety appears when deep in ourselves we know that we have no other choice – no other alternative way of acting.” He goes on to suggest that we imagine how different we feel when walking along a 6-inch board on the floor and that same board suspended ten feet in the air. Works for me.
This site offers options and choices for care that won’t be found in most clinics, I know. I also know that something other than rational thinking isn’t tolerated well, if at all. Often in order to gain the former we have to relinquish the latter, and I know this isn’t an easy task.
I have to come up with a way of offering choices that doesn’t overwhelm so many who want to actually change.
At every course I spend a few minutes after lunch showing the class where there might go on the Internet to discover more. Of course, I show them around Soma Simple.
In St. Cloud Minnesota last Thursday a woman raised her hand after this and said quite seriously, “I have trouble choosing among all the salad dressings offered in a restaurant. I can’t begin to…” Her voice trailed off as she shook her head and it seemed clear that she wasn’t about to change the choice she’d made years ago. All I could tell her was that, for me, this subject can never grow too large.
But, in fact, as their options for treatment and theories of dysfunction increase many therapists grow paralyzed, unable to decide which of these they might use or study further. But I’ve heard it said that those among us who spend a lot of time looking for the “ideal” situation to place ourselves in never make any real progress. So choices must be made, and, if you think about it, looking back upon the consequences of any choice typically reveals that it was both the right and wrong one to make.
The anxiety I sense when students look at the many ways our patients might be understood probably has its roots in their work environment. Many are driven by productivity standards and a personal need to get along with others on the staff and, of course, these things tend to reduce the choices we consider. This is a problem when the student realizes that there are clinics where the care is not based on a theory that can be defended given what we know about human function lately. Talking about this isn’t the most popular thing I do.
But choices reduce anxiety, at least according to Feldenkrais. In The Elusive Obvious he says, “Anxiety appears when deep in ourselves we know that we have no other choice – no other alternative way of acting.” He goes on to suggest that we imagine how different we feel when walking along a 6-inch board on the floor and that same board suspended ten feet in the air. Works for me.
This site offers options and choices for care that won’t be found in most clinics, I know. I also know that something other than rational thinking isn’t tolerated well, if at all. Often in order to gain the former we have to relinquish the latter, and I know this isn’t an easy task.
I have to come up with a way of offering choices that doesn’t overwhelm so many who want to actually change.